Friday, December 19, 2008

TRUE FRIENDSHIP

Ever wondered what is the real essence of the saying "A Friend in Need is a Friend Indeed"? People talk about the true value of friendship without knowing what it stands for. True friendship is when there are no formalities; when the person you are talking about is counted as family; when the relation you share reaches a stage that even if you don't correspond for sometime, your relationship remains intact. Best friends need not meet up often to make sure that the friendship remains constant. The trust between best friends is such that if one friend falls in trouble, the other will not think twice to help.

If the bond between two friends is strong, true friends can endure even long distances. They find a way of being in touch despite busy schedules. True friendship never fades away; in fact it grows better with time. True friends don't need a posh place to hang out. Their most precious hideout is each others' rooms! True friendship thrives on trust, inspiration and comfort. Best friends come to know when the other person is in trouble, merely by listening to their "Hello" over the phone.

True friends don't desert each other when there is trouble. They face it together and support each other even if it hurts the other individual's interest. Best friends don't analyze each other; they don't have to. They accept each other with their positive and negative qualities. Nothing is hidden between true friends; they know each other's strengths and weaknesses. Best friends don't stand any outsider commenting or criticizing their friendship and they can put up a very firm resistance if anyone does so.

True friends are not opportunists. They don't help because they have something to gain out of it. True friendship is selfless. Best friends support even when the whole world opposes you. It is not easy getting true friends and if you have even one true friend, consider yourself blessed. In this world of cynics and back stabbers, there are still some people who are worth being friends with.

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

experiences from life

You should never be scared to achieve your dreams 'coz dreams do come true!

Do believe in your dreams 'coz dreams do come true.

If someone talks bad about me it only goes to show that the person feels insecure. I don't manipulate.

I feel Hindi is very close to Urdu. Both languages are beautiful. Sadly, their beauty is lost in translation.

When I arrived and looked at the destruction from the terror attack in mumbai, I told myself, 'We're not going to be able to make an impact in few weeks' But after we were through, I know we'll have a lasting impression.

People bring you up so fast...But they bring you down even faster.

I love human beings. I believe that there is so much to learn from every person you meet including a child.

I think I'm God's little angel. No matters what happens, I will be taken care of.

If i wont make it big, i might be asked to recheck my decision, then when I'll be successful, there is no way. They'll have to accept it gracefully.

people are very talented. But it hurts when I lose a project to them because I'm equal qualified

If you see me presenting 2day , you will notice that the level of confidence has only gotten better. I'm lot more comfortable with the crowd now.

I didn't bad mouth anybody. its just that i've been miserably misunderstood. i've always been taken for granted.

We were children together… now the child I knew, has a child. Such a long journey… in such a short time, now they embark on another journey. A journey of parenthood. I wish them all the best.( to a dear friend of mine)

MBA was never on my agenda, may be it was written in my destiny. And since I am here, I would like to give it my best try.

I am happy I have competition. It keeps me on my toes all the while and stops me from becoming complacent. So, it works to my advantage.

I would never deny the importance of a best friend in my life, but now I wouldn't go out of the way to splash my help for them. I'd rather let the time do the talking.

I don't want to have to sit with my kids, 20 or 25 years down the line, watching my stupid mistakes and knowing this is how I made them & this is what i achieved from them .

I will prove myself with my hard work and I’m confident that I’d be able to do a lot of good work in the corporate world as well as in the social sector.

Monday, October 27, 2008

MY IDEAL PARTNER

MY IDEAL MAN
My ideal man should be madly in love with me because I won't have it any other way. I am a total romantic at heart, so naturally, my ideal mate better be well versed in the art of romance. Not flirting, but romance. And there is quite a difference. I dig dignity. It is rare and priceless in a world that's so taken over by images and put-ons. So my ideal mate would be one who can carry himself with dignity, someone whom the world can look up to and admire and be in awe of. Frankly, I want a friend, philosopher and guide, all rolled into one man. A combination of a father, friend and a lover. I get turned on by a man who will lead me to light from the dark. Doesn't that sound philosophical? The biggest asset that a man can have is genuineness. I hate anything plastic or anything that's superficial and can smell superficiality from a distance. My greatest necessity is a hygienic environment. So I like men who are clean and neat and not ones who leave their things strewn across the room or are dirty and don't wear clean clothes. I am not brutally ambitious, so my ideal man shouldn't be so ambitious that he forgets about our relationship. Ambition is fine as long as it doesn't put a distance between the ones you love. I don't like people who neglect relationships for work. Frankly, besides these qualities I really don't know what to say. I honestly don't know what my ideal mate should be like. I am not consciously looking out for a relationship to happen. Of course subconsciously, we all like to have a little romance in our life. I believe in a meeting of the souls and emotional attachments between two people interested in being together because that's what soul mates are all about. And an ideal mate is necessarily a soul mate. If I meet a man and our souls connect then I might just get emotionally involved. Compatibility too tops the list. We may not share too many things in common, but we should have a common basic principle by which we lead our lives. Physically, the man should be handsome but not necessarily tall and dark! He should be well dressed, not expensively but sophisticatedly dressed. What I would also like in my ideal mate is that infuriating and yet endearing quality, childishness. My ideal mate would be a little bit of man and a little bit of child, rolled in one
PINKY